1:1 coaching

For the leader holding it all together — and quietly coming apart.

A 13-week partnership to lead from recovery, not survival mode — so you stay human in systems that keep pulling us apart.

Maybe some of this is you

You're doing the best you can — and it still doesn't feel like enough.

  • The tools you were given aren't meeting the moment.

  • You're numbing, dissociating, or coping in ways that keep you stuck.

  • You're being pressured to keep going with business as usual.

  • You're performing, but disengaged and disillusioned.

  • You feel disconnected from yourself and the people around you.

  • You see what's broken — and feel powerless to change it.

You're not broken, and you're not failing.

It's what a nervous system does inside a system that rewards disconnection. The exhaustion was never a personal failing — it's a signal, and it can be worked with.

Where this leads

Two kinds of change — how you carry it, and what you do with it.

How you carry it

Grounded. Hopeful. Empowered.

A steadier inner state — present under pressure instead of running on survival mode, and no longer carrying it alone.

What you do with it

Clarity and agency‍ ‍to act with integrity — and the knowledge to be a good steward.

Real influence right where you stand: decisions aligned to your values, and the systems literacy to change what's broken well.

How We get there

coaching builds three core capacities and one body of knowledge


01

Tolerance

Staying with discomfort instead of numbing it. So that hard feelings become a signal you can read.


02

Regulation

Keeping your footing once you're in it. So that chaos stops setting your pace — you meet it steady.


03

Discernment

Clarity on your purpose and values. So that you hold your own line when everything's pulling you off it.


Systems Literacy

The knowledge to influence systems right where you are. So that you can act where you already stand and move something.

What the 13 weeks include

A high-touch partnership, not a course you complete alone.

Thirteen weekly 1:1 sessions

60 focused minutes each week, paced to your reality — not a fixed curriculum.

Async access

Reach me between sessions by call, email, or text when decisions can't wait.

Bi-weekly community sessions

Facilitated gatherings with fellow leaders — because this work isn't done in isolation.

Resources to return to

A Recovery Toolkit, Ecosystem Map, Operating Principles, and Daily Practices — yours to keep.

What Makes This Different

Not another program to “optimize” you.

Most coaching pushes you to perform harder.

Built on recovery, not hustle

This builds the capacity to stay present, honest, and human under pressure — not to numb and push through another week.

Most coaches work from theory or the sidelines.

Led by someone who's been inside it

Twenty years in corporate systems, and five years in my own recovery. I've carried the weight you're carrying and found a way through it.

Most programs stop at mindset.

Personal work and systemic change

You'll build the systems literacy to influence what's broken right where you stand.

Most coaching leaves you to do it alone.

Practiced in community

Recovery taught me these patterns don't shift in isolation. Bi-weekly community and between-session access mean you're supported through the hard parts.

Investment starts at

$7,500

For the full 13-week engagement, tailored to your situation. Available as a single payment or in installments. We'll talk through the details together on a call — this is a real commitment, and it should be the right fit before you decide.

Founding-client rates available to a limited number of leaders joining now.